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Myths about Penetrative Sex
Myth: All people should want (and prefer) penetrative sex.
Fact: Many people PREFER (or are at least available for) other types of sexual play or intimacy that do not involve penetration- cuddles, making out, energy play, massage, food play, power-play etc!
A Cuddlist Cuddling Cats
I am officially Cuddlist Trained!!
I have always love touch-therapy sessions and now, I get to add Cuddle-Trained to my repertoire!
Serendipitously, I went to get cuddled by cats not long-after, when my twin came to visit for my birthday!
A Lifetime in Two Minutes
To me, dance IS TANTRA....
It's that moment when you are listening so close to what is happening inside of you, that the space between the two of you becomes a universe in itself.
And the smallest micro movements transport you into the most beautiful sadness or the most profound ecstasy…
Moving to Austin, TX
"I've been known for one thing
I come and then I go
Now the days turn into weeks
You and this town are growing on me
We could put some roots down
We could put some roots down…
Your Own Disney Character
Dreams. Action. Love. Purpose.
Disney seems to capture the inner desires we all seem to have…
This week I was gifted a trip to Disney with a favorite client- getting a chance to talk about all of this and more, and it made me reflect on the magic in my own life.
Pleasure is the Measure
"Pleasure is the measure of sexual wellbeing. NOT how often, or who with, or even how many orgasms you are having... It is whether or not you enjoy the se- you are having." -Emily Nagoski
This is why I love the tantric practice. It allows us to let go of goals/expectations, be open to finding pleasure in what is real in the moment, and teaches us transferable skills in bringing pleasure to all aspects of our lives, not just in the sexual.
