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Another Kind of Magic
Another kind of magic..
There is another kind of magic. Found in the humdrum of everyday life shared with someone you love..
When we Sat in Silence
From the moment we first shared time (cuddling for an hour and a half at my cuddle party), it was as if everything faded away and there was just us, breathing together, our heartbeats syncing almost immediately. And everything got so beautifully... quiet.
Love doesn't have to be loud and fiery and chaotic. Sometimes the most profound love can be quiet, slow, and seemingly endless...
Pleasure is the Measure
"Pleasure is the measure of sexual wellbeing. NOT how often, or who with, or even how many orgasms you are having... It is whether or not you enjoy the se- you are having." -Emily Nagoski
This is why I love the tantric practice. It allows us to let go of goals/expectations, be open to finding pleasure in what is real in the moment, and teaches us transferable skills in bringing pleasure to all aspects of our lives, not just in the sexual.
The Importance of “Liking”
What is compatibility? I've been in a few long-term relationships in my life so far, and they've run the gamut:
Lust: I want you. Passionate. Sparks. Eventually, attachment style mismatch gone awry in fiery blaze.
Storybook: It seems like the universe put us together for a reason. Happily ever after doesn't actually happen.
